Leading Well: Management Skills for Pastoral Leaders
Stewarding people as faithfully as you shepherd souls.
Leading Well equips clergy and spiritual leaders with the essential management and leadership skills rarely taught in seminary but critically needed for effective ministry. This program recognizes that pastoral leaders wear multiple hats—serving as spiritual guides, organizational leaders, team builders, and problem solvers—and provides practical tools to excel in each role.
The Challenge We Address—Seminary prepares clergy to preach, teach, and provide pastoral care, but most graduates have never learned how to:
Conduct a performance review
Have a difficult conversation with an underperforming staff member
Set clear expectations and hold people accountable
Coach team members toward growth
Navigate the unique challenges of managing both paid staff and volunteers
Balance grace with truth in personnel decisions
The result? Talented pastoral leaders struggle unnecessarily with personnel issues, avoid difficult conversations, allow problems to fester, and watch ministry effectiveness suffer—all while feeling guilty about treating "church like a business."
Who This Program Serves — This training is designed for:
Senior pastors and lead clergy responsible for managing staff
Executive pastors and ministry directors with supervisory responsibilities
Emerging leaders preparing for increased management responsibilities
Church administrators navigating the intersection of pastoral care and personnel management
Schedule an introductory call to explore what works best for you.
Coaching for Growth: Multiply your impact
Shift from "doing ministry" to "developing ministry leaders"
Ask powerful questions that unlock potential
Provide feedback that motivates rather than deflates
Move from "I'll just do it myself" to "I'll invest time equipping others”
Managing Performance: Clear is kind
Set clear, measurable expectations aligned with ministry vision
Conduct meaningful performance conversations (not just annual reviews)
Distinguish between character issues, competency gaps, and role mismatch
Balance grace with accountability, care with clarity
Building Accountability: Balance grace and grit
Establish healthy accountability structures without micromanaging
Navigate dual relationships (staff member who's also a congregant)
Address long-standing issues you've been avoiding
Create structure without becoming legalistic; maintain relationships while addressing issues
Module 4: Situational Leadership: Fairness versus sameness
Lead effectively across generational and cultural differences
Match your leadership approach to different situations and circumstances
Respond to change by maintaining greater awareness of changing expectations
Treating people fairly doesn't mean treating everyone the same; know when to extend grace and when to make the hard call
1. Spiritually Grounded, Practically Focused
This program integrates spiritual principles of stewardship, leadership, and care with proven management practices.
2. Ministry-Specific
The curriculum is taught in the context of actual scenarios and situations common in faith communities and church management.
3. Action-Oriented Learning
Each module includes practical tools and frameworks you can implement immediately.
5. Peer Learning Community
You'll learn alongside other clergy leaders who share similar challenges. Build a network of trusted colleagues who understand the unique pressures of church leadership.
When ministry teams thrive, congregations flourish. When leaders avoid personnel issues, everyone suffers—including those whose performance needs attention.
Leading Well gives you permission, tools, and confidence to steward your team as faithfully as you steward the gospel.
Because the church deserves leaders who can both cast vision and coach teams, both preach powerfully and manage wisely, both care for souls and build accountability.
The next cohort opens soon. Contact me about scheduling options.
In addition to what you can read about my experience, you should know that I recognize and appreciate the messy and the mundane in church leadership.
My spiritual journey began in baptism by a fiery Methodist pastor in a small rural town in Kansas, continued through lay leadership roles in churches small (100-250) and large (7,000+) in Kansas, Atlanta, GA, and now in the Seattle area. And life as a pastor’s wife gave me front row seat to many of the issues that you experience.
Leading Well integrates some of the best management and leadership development content that I have offered to corporate and non-profit organizations with real-life scenarios and situations from lived experiences in church management. My intention is to bring the wisdom of experience – both inside and outside the church – to this learning environment.
Relational complexity and boundary issues
Managing people they have pastoral relationships with, blurring professional and spiritual boundaries
Difficulty separating friendship from supervision when staff or volunteers are also congregants
Fear that addressing performance issues will damage church relationships or cause people to leave the congregation
Lack of management fundamentals
Never learning how to conduct performance reviews, give constructive feedback, or set clear expectations
Uncertainty about when and how to document issues or create improvement plans
Not knowing how to interview, hire, or onboard staff effectively
Volunteer management challenges
Difficulty holding volunteers accountable without seeming ungrateful
Managing volunteer burnout while needing their continued service
Navigating situations where long-time volunteers resist change or new leadership
Conflict avoidance and difficult conversations
Trained in pastoral care but not equipped for direct confrontation about performance
Tendency to let issues fester rather than address them early
Struggling to terminate employment or remove volunteers when necessary
Multi-generational and cultural dynamics
Managing staff and volunteers across wide age ranges with different expectations
Navigating resistance from long-tenured members who remember "how things used to be"
Balancing different work styles and communication preferences
Resource constraints
Working with limited budgets that make competitive compensation difficult
Managing part-time or bi-vocational staff with competing priorities
Lack of HR infrastructure or professional HR support
Theological tensions
Wrestling with concepts of grace and accountability in employment decisions
Confusion about whether church employment should follow secular best practices or operate differently
Guilt about "treating church like a business"